What does “Lamourbox” mean?
The name comes from the French word “l’amour” (love) and the idea of a box filled with surprises. To me, it represents passion, connection, and discovery—everything that makes sexual wellness exciting.
How did I get started with Lamourbox?
It began as a passion project. I wanted to make the world of sexual wellness easier to explore by offering honest, approachable advice about toys and intimacy. Lamourbox is all about helping people discover what works for them in a safe and fun way.
How many toys do I own, and how do I clean and store them?
Let’s just say… a lot! 😄 Every toy I recommend has been tested thoroughly. Cleaning is super important, and I always use body-safe toy cleaners and warm water. For storage, I keep them in hygienic, discreet pouches to protect the materials.
How many times do I test a toy before recommending it?
Each toy gets tested multiple times to make sure it delivers. I focus on usability, comfort, and whether it actually lives up to its promises. A lot of testing also involves trying it in different situations—solo or with a partner—to see how versatile it is.
What are my favorite toys?
It really depends on the situation. For long-distance relationships, I’ve written guides on the best app-controlled toys that are fun and reliable. For beginners, I’ve also shared articles with easy-to-use options that are great for exploring for the first time.
What’s the worst toy I’ve ever tested?
There are definitely toys out there that look good but don’t feel good—or aren’t safe! That’s why I’m careful about what I recommend. Some cheap toys use bad materials or don’t last long, and those never make it into my guides.
What do the people in my life think about this?
Honestly, most people find it interesting or fun once they get past the initial surprise. My partner is very supportive, and they love exploring new toys with me. It’s all about communication and having fun together.
How can I recycle or get rid of old sex toys?
Not all toys can be recycled, but some brands offer take-back programs. For electric toys, remove the batteries first. Always check with the manufacturer to see if they have recommendations for disposal.
Are sex toys shipped discreetly?
Yes! Most brands and stores I recommend ship in plain packaging with no hints about what’s inside. It’s a priority for them—and me—that your privacy is respected.
Will using vibrators desensitize me or make it harder to enjoy other kinds of stimulation?
Not at all! Using a vibrator won’t ruin your sensitivity or ability to enjoy other forms of intimacy. If you feel less sensitive after a session, it’s just temporary. Take a break, and you’ll be fine.
How do I know if a sex toy is body-safe?
I always recommend sticking to toys made with medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or glass. Avoid anything made with jelly or rubber that doesn’t clearly state it’s free of harmful chemicals like phthalates.
What are my tips for traveling with sex toys?
I’ve done this plenty of times, so here’s what works:
- Choose compact toys with travel locks to avoid surprises.
- Pack them in discreet pouches, away from sharp objects.
- Don’t worry about TSA—they’ve seen it all. Toys are perfectly legal to carry.
Should I buy sex toys on Amazon?
I don’t recommend it unless you’re buying from the brand’s official store. There are too many counterfeits out there. Stick to trusted retailers or shop directly from the brand for peace of mind.
What toys do I recommend for beginners?
I’ve written guides for beginners with toys that are simple, fun, and easy to use. If you’re just starting out, check out my recommendations on Lamourbox, where I’ve broken it all down step by step.
How do I pick the right toy if I’m not sure what I like?
Think about what you’re curious to explore:
- Want external stimulation? Look for bullet or suction toys.
- Interested in internal stimulation? A G-spot toy might be your thing.
- Not sure? Go for a versatile option that does both, like some I’ve mentioned in my guides.
What’s my best advice for exploring sexual wellness?
- Stay open-minded—it’s a journey, not a one-time decision.
- Do your research—understanding materials and features will help you choose wisely.
- Have fun! This is about discovering what makes you feel good, so don’t overthink it.
What’s the difference between different vibrator types?
Vibrators come in many styles, and each offers a unique experience:
- Bullet Vibrators: Compact and perfect for targeted external stimulation.
- Wands: Powerful and great for full-body massages.
- Rabbit Vibrators: Combine internal and external stimulation but can be hit or miss depending on the fit.
- Suction Toys: Mimic oral stimulation and are ideal for clitoral pleasure.
- App-Controlled Vibrators: Perfect for long-distance fun or hands-free play.
What do I look for in a good sex toy?
For me, the best toys check these boxes:
- Body-safe materials (silicone, ABS plastic, or glass).
- Adjustable settings for a customizable experience.
- Durable and easy to clean.
- Positive reviews or recommendations from trusted sources.
Can I use lube with my toys? What kind should I choose?
Absolutely! Lube can make everything better. Stick with water-based lube for silicone toys to avoid damaging the material. For glass or metal toys, you can use water-, silicone-, or hybrid-based lubes.
What are some signs of a low-quality or unsafe toy?
Watch out for:
- Strong, unpleasant odors (a sign of toxic materials).
- No clear mention of body-safe materials.
- Poor construction or seams where bacteria can hide.
If it feels cheap or questionable, it’s not worth the risk.
Why don’t you recommend certain popular brands?
Some brands focus more on flashy marketing than on quality or safety. I prioritize companies that use body-safe materials, have good warranties, and are transparent about their products.
How do I talk to my partner about trying sex toys?
Communication is key. Bring it up casually and focus on how it could enhance your connection. You can frame it as something fun to explore together, rather than implying anything is “missing.”
Can sex toys improve my relationship?
They definitely can! Toys can add variety, help with sexual health issues, and deepen intimacy. Whether it’s spicing things up or exploring new sensations, they’re tools to enhance your connection—not replace it.
What’s the most surprising thing I’ve learned from testing toys?
How much personal preference matters. A toy one person raves about might not work for someone else, and that’s okay. It’s all about finding what works for you.
What’s my stance on novelty-shaped toys (unicorns, dragons, etc.)?
They’re fun for some people, but I prefer toys that are ergonomic and functional. If a novelty design makes you smile and still gets the job done, go for it!
Can sex toys help with sexual health issues?
Yes, they can! Toys can help with everything from strengthening pelvic floor muscles to addressing low libido. For example, Kegel exercisers are great for muscle tone, while wands can relieve tension and increase blood flow.
How do I navigate choosing a toy as a couple?
Start by discussing what you both want to try. Remote-controlled toys, couple’s vibrators, or simple options like massage wands are great for shared experiences. Always consider comfort and preferences on both sides.
What’s the funniest experience I’ve had testing a toy?
Let’s just say not every toy works as intended! I’ve had toys malfunction or make unexpected noises at the worst times—it’s all part of the adventure.
How can I learn more about sex toy safety and features?
Check out the guides I’ve written on Lamourbox! I dive deep into everything from materials to the latest trends, so you can feel confident in your choices.
What’s your advice for someone nervous about trying a toy for the first time?
Start small—literally. A simple bullet vibrator or a basic external stimulator can be a great introduction. Take your time, explore at your own pace, and remember: there’s no “right” way to use a toy—just what feels good for you.
Are sex toys just for people in relationships?
Not at all! Toys are amazing for self-discovery and solo pleasure. They’re tools for learning what you like, which can improve confidence and enhance your experiences with a partner later.
What’s your go-to toy for travel?
Compact, discreet toys like mini vibrators or finger vibes are perfect for traveling. I also look for toys with travel locks, so they don’t accidentally turn on in my luggage (learned that one the hard way).
What’s one sex toy trend you’re excited about?
The rise of app-controlled toys and innovative suction toys. The tech is getting so advanced, it’s making pleasure more customizable and accessible than ever.
Are there toys designed for people with disabilities?
Yes! Many toys are designed with accessibility in mind. Look for options with larger buttons, ergonomic designs, or hands-free functionality. Everyone deserves pleasure, and the industry is slowly becoming more inclusive.
What’s your opinion on gendered marketing for sex toys?
It’s unnecessary. Toys don’t have a gender—they’re for anyone who wants to use them. I love seeing brands focus more on function and inclusivity rather than outdated labels.
How do I discreetly bring toys through airport security?
Keep them in your carry-on and make sure they’re clean. Remove batteries or engage the travel lock if they have one. Security agents have seen it all, so don’t stress—they’re professionals!
Do you think sex toys can replace human connection?
Not at all. Toys enhance pleasure, but they can’t replicate the emotional and physical connection of being with another person. Think of them as tools for self-care and exploration, not replacements.
What’s one thing you wish everyone knew about sex toys?
That they’re not taboo or something to feel ashamed of. Using toys is a normal, healthy part of exploring your body and pleasure. The more open we are about it, the more we can break the stigma.
What should I look for in a first-time lubricant?
Go for a high-quality water-based lubricant—it’s safe with most toys and easy to clean. Avoid anything with glycerin or parabens, especially if you have sensitive skin. Silicone-based lubes are great for long-lasting play, but don’t use them with silicone toys.
Can I share my sex toys with my partner?
Yes, but with precautions. Use a condom over the toy if you’re sharing it during the same session or between partners to maintain hygiene. Always clean your toys thoroughly before and after use.
Do I need to replace my toys regularly?
It depends on the material and how well you care for them. Silicone and stainless steel toys can last for years with proper cleaning, while cheaper materials might degrade over time. Always inspect for wear and tear.
What’s the best way to store my toys?
Keep them in a clean, dry place. Many toys come with storage bags, which help prevent dust and contamination. If they don’t, consider using a small pouch or box to keep them separate.
What are some red flags to avoid when buying sex toys?
Beware of toys made from jelly, PVC, or materials that smell strongly—these can contain harmful chemicals. Stick with reputable brands and materials like medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel.
Are there toys designed for long-distance relationships?
Yes! Many app-controlled toys allow you to connect and control them remotely. They’re perfect for couples wanting to stay intimate no matter the distance. I’ve written a guide with some of the best options—check it out!
What should I do if a toy doesn’t work for me?
First, don’t get discouraged. Everyone’s preferences are different. Consider exploring other shapes, intensities, or types of stimulation. It’s all part of the journey to discovering what works best for you.
Why do you recommend body-safe materials so strongly?
Your body deserves the best care, and toxic materials can lead to irritation or health risks. Body-safe materials like silicone, glass, and stainless steel are non-porous, easy to clean, and safe for long-term use.
Are there eco-friendly sex toy options?
Absolutely! Some brands are creating toys with rechargeable batteries, sustainable packaging, and recyclable materials. You can also look for ways to responsibly dispose of old toys, like through recycling programs.
What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned about sex toys?
That they’re not just about pleasure—they can also improve health. Many toys help with pelvic floor strength, relieve stress, or even assist with chronic pain. It’s amazing how versatile they are!